09 Nov Housefly – I am not
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Well, I am one. Rather was.
I was told by none other but my daughter because one day I sat doing my work silently…aloof rather… irritated to be precise… not communicating with the family to be frank. So here I admit!
A woman’s mood is not only hers. Her family members are majority stakeholders of her private possession. The state of mind of the woman-of-the-house ripples off to affect every single person and object in her home. The husband gets fuzzy, the kid gets fuzzier and together they begin to rub your already fuzziest mood. The dishes make noise, the cleaner makes more noise and the roofs scream back at you!
The best remedy to keep peace at home is to SMILE and say ‘leave me alone, I need some time to myself’. And close the door again with a SMILE.
Fake that SMILE to begin with.
But beware, restrain it to only a smile. Else, you become a pleaser.
People pleasers are the worst sufferers!
I was a die-hard one, until recently. Currently, I’m one with measured restraints – as I’m still working hard to eradicate it without a trace.
The low-side of being a people pleaser, dear friends, is you will not be valued for what you are. And think about this – if you value yourself, would you have put yourself in uncomfortable situations to please others?
However, close or distant the person/people/situation might be, if you are not ‘COMFORTABLE’, it’s not worth investing time and energy in them/that.
You are the most important person for you!
But yes, you may smile – if it’s person/people, smile at them. If it’s a situation, smile at yourself.
Smile buys peace!